My ideal evening alone with my partner is:
I suggest trying something new in bed with my partner.
It's important to me that sex feels calm and predictable.
What matters most to you in intimacy?
Your partner suggests trying something unusual in bed. Your first reaction:
I often fantasize about things I haven't tried yet.
How much does the thought of your partner blindfolding you or tying your hands turn you on?
Where do you most enjoy making love?
It turns me on when my partner takes control — within the limits we've agreed on.
I plan intimate surprises for my partner: new lingerie, a game, an unusual place.
How interested are you in trying a blindfold game with touches of different textures — a feather, ice, silk?
How much does a little pain during play — spanking, biting — turn you on?
I like to lead and guide my partner in bed.
How do you feel about role-play?
What do you prefer?
Have you ever shared your boldest fantasy with your partner?
How do you feel about sex toys?
For me, sex without deep feelings isn't possible.
How much does the thought of sex away from home — somewhere private outdoors or in a car — turn you on?
Before sex, what do you enjoy more?
How interested are you in trying a "leader and follower" game with a safe word agreed in advance?
Have you ever tried an oil massage as foreplay?
I'm the one who initiates sex.
Which role in bed suits you best?
How interested are you in making an erotic video or photos just for the two of you, with both of you on board?
I enjoy watching erotica or reading explicit stories together with my partner.
After sex, I want to stay cuddled up and talk for a while.
How interested are you in trying tantric practices — slow sex with attention to breathing and sensations?
How do you talk to your partner about what you want?
What turns you on more?
For me, sex is above all a way to show tenderness.
How do you feel about sexting and sharing intimate photos with your partner?
How interested are you in making a "yes / no / maybe" list of desires together with your partner?
What kind of sex do you prefer?
How do you feel when your sex life follows the usual routine?
How interested are you in a wish night — taking turns fulfilling each other's wishes that you've agreed on?
How much does it turn you on when your partner says explicit things during sex?
I easily forget my inhibitions when I'm enjoying myself with my partner.
Have you ever had sex in front of a mirror?
How do you feel about sexy lingerie or dressing up for your partner?
I like it when my partner teases me and makes me wait.
How interested are you in going to a sensual massage or dance class with your partner?
I read or watch things to learn more about sex and pleasure.
I sometimes want to switch roles: to lead at times and to submit at others.
How often do you want sex?
What interests you more?
How much does it turn you on when your partner confidently pins you against a wall or pulls you close?
I flirt with my partner during the day to build up desire for the evening.
My sex life is a space for play and experimentation.
What lighting are you most comfortable with during sex?
Have you ever played "strangers" — for example, meeting at a bar and "getting to know each other" all over again?
How much does it turn you on when your partner watches you undress?
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